Redditor u / MintyFreshGirl In a post titled “AITA for going on a trip without one sister because she is religious and ruins things?”, She writes about family dynamics in the subreddit “Am I The A ** hole”. .. It has been voted over 9,000 times.
In fact, in 2021, the Pew Research Center reported on the ongoing transition to a more secular society in the United States. According to a recent survey, the number of Americans who were “totally irrelevant” was 6 percentage points higher than five years ago and 10 points higher than 10 years ago.
According to a 2021 report, “about 3 in 10 (29%) adults in the United States are religious’atheists’, and when asked about their religious identity, atheists, agnostics, Or people who describe “nothing in particular”.
She writes that she decided to travel to Las Vegas with her sister and cousin on her 21st birthday 10 years ago. Initially, Redditor had his own room, but one of her sisters and her cousin eventually moved to her room because her sister Christina was “the worst person to get into the room.” rice field.
“She was a terrifying addition to the trip, and we ended up telling her just to do her own thing,” Redditor wrote. “She wanted to go to bed early. She wanted to go see the musical instead of going to the club. She wanted to eat early and then get up early.”
She said the three women had to stay for another three days so that they could have a “stress-free time” after dropping Christina at the airport. To date, they still talk about how bad the trip was.
She said they started planning vacations without her since that trip.
Redditor said he “does something” with Christina, but will not “discomfort” her. “”
She said the separation was working until their mom “sliding” that Christina was excluded from a recent trip to the lake house.
“Christina tried to call us to see if she could see the girls while visiting a family in a hospital a few towns away,” she writes. She said, “Mom took the children, but we were going to the woods for a week, so she’s unlikely to answer the phone right away.”
She said that when they returned, Christina confronted her and asked why she and her children were not invited.
“We said we didn’t want, it was just time to relax, and she has problems with us not getting married, not drinking … so why she wants to come Is it? “She wrote.
She told her sister that this kind of trip had been going on for 10 years since Las Vegas, and Christina left “very upset.”
many Comment contributor Understanding Redditor’s decision to exclude her sister from the plan, she said she was not obliged to include her in everything she did.
“OP, you and your sister and cousin are incompatible with your sister, and it’s okay. She’s her and it doesn’t sound like you’re having problems with it, and she’s Sounds like that Your girl’s trip will be miserable and she will miser you, so tell her that, “writes one commentator.
Another commentator seemed to sympathize with Christina’s hurt feelings because of Christina’s “lifestyle.”
“It’s going to be a big deal. But your sister chose a particular way of life. You and others don’t live that way. Perhaps you don’t teach her how to live, so she gives back. Should be done. ” “It’s painful to be left behind from some things, but that’s the price of the lifestyle she wants. It will take some time to accept it.”
In one answer to the commenter, Redditor writes that her sister wants them to “stop being sinful” and “behave like the 90’s.” Religious Sitcom for her kids. “
One commentator clearly states that everyone should be able to enjoy the trip as they please.